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Hello and welcome to my blog! 

My name is Daniela and I am a Foreign Service Officer (FSO) with the U.S. Department of State, or in other words a U.S. Diplomat. My husband, Paul, is also a FSO, so we are what's called a tandem couple. We have two kids, Nia and Max, and two cats, Dodo and Tux. Join us on this amazing Foreign Service journey. 

My husband's first post was Washington, D.C. - anticlimactic, I know, at least as far as Foreign Service posts go but it was a great opportunity for him. His second post was New Delhi. I joined the Foreign Service 5 months after we got to New Delhi. There was an open position in New Delhi and I had already taken ConGen (consular training) and Hindi, so I was able to fill it immediately, which was wonderful because we were able to serve together.

My current post is Addis Ababa, Ethopia. Getting posted together the second time around was quite tricky. My husband kept bidding and lobbying for a job in Addis for more than a year after I got my assignment. He didn't get one. Not in Addis anyhow, which sometimes happens with tandems. But he did get a job. In Washington, D.C. Fortunately, it is a job related to Africa, so after a lot of negotiations he was able to work out an arrangement, which allows him to telecommute from Addis, which means we get to keep the family together.


Tuk & Tam means Here & There in Bulgarian. I picked that name in honor of my family and my native Bulgaria. It was also the most popular name in the very unscientific voting process I used to come up with a name for the blog. If you don't like the name, blame my Facebook friends.


Why I blog?
  • to keep family and friends updated on our trials and tribulations - life in the Foreign Service has its highs and lows and I will attempt to chronicle those here.
  • because I get to be my own editor - and I can break those AP Styleguide rules all day long, if I want to. So liberating, ha?
  • because it gives me an opportunity to vent - I am hoping that blogging will help me deal with the craziness or as fellow blogger Jill from The Perlman Update puts it "I write because it's cheaper than therapy."
Why not blog in Bulgarian?

After all Bulgarian is my native language. I did consider doing that for a while because my parents know very little English and didn't want to rob my biggest fans of the joy of reading my gems. But in the end I decided that English made more sense because my husband's family is substantially larger than mine and almost all of our friends know English. I will just have to keep my parents updated on what's going on with us via Skype, which they love anyway because they get to watch the kids' antics.


What to expect from this blog?
  • I will probably be writing a few times a month. I don't see myself doing it daily but there may be a flurry of activity from time to time.
  • I will more than likely subject you to digressions, parenthetical statements, and the occasional end-of-the-sentence preposition. 'Cause that's just how I roll. If that's not to your liking, this blog may not be for you. Don't say I didn't warn you.
  • I will try to post pictures and the occasional video of what's happening to and around us.
  • My "partners in crime," Paul, Nia and Max, will make frequent appearances and I will include their comments as we go along.
  • I will need your comments to keep my sanity, so don't be shy.
  • The views and opinions expressed on this blog are mine and not those of the Foreign Service/State Department.
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Thank you for stopping by - enjoy!

7 comments:

  1. Hi Daniela! I've been reading your blog as I was thinking of a life in the foreign service. I followed your comments about the written exam. I was wondering if I could ask you a question about it. I also recently took it and wrote the essay, but ran out of time before I could hit submit. You wrote that you also ran out of time. Does it still count your answer if you run out of time??? Thanks!!

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    1. Hi, thanks for stopping by. Based on your description it is hard to say whether the system took your essay. I hope it did but there's no way for me to know. Otherwise, you have to get a score of at least 154 on the multiple-choice sections of the FSOT (Job Knowledge, Biographical Information and English Expression) in order to get your essay read. If your multiple-choice score is below 154, they don't read your essay. If it's higher than 154, they will read your essay and grade it, even if it's incomplete. The essay score ranges from 0 to 12 with 6 being the minimal passing score. So for example, in 2010 I wrote what I thought was a decent essay and was able to complete it in time but my multiple-choice score was 142.97, so my essay was never read/graded. In 2011, my essay was OK but I didn't feel as good about it and it was a little unfinished. I had 162.20 on the multiple-choice sections this time and my essay was read/graded. My essay score was 6 - the minimum passing score, kinda lame, I know, but it's better than not passing. Hope this helps. Best of luck!

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  2. Hi - I just found your blog and will look forward to following it. Not sure but your families background sounds a little similar to my own. I am a former PCV married to someone I met in the country where I served. We have a young daughter and I am thinking about the FS. If you don't mind, I'd enjoy emailing you to ask you a few questions about your experience? Thanks

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    1. Hi Leomund,

      Your story does sound similar. I'd be happy to answer your questions off-line. You can email me at bolyarka(at)hotmail.com (where (at)=@ - trying to avoid spam here). Best of luck with the FS! It's a long process but hopefully you will be able to get through.

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  3. Zdraveyte! Just like the others above, I found your blog as I was starting to research the FS- I just recently took the FSOT and turned in my personal narratives and just waiting to hear back. I really appreciate your detailed posts about you and your husband's process getting to where you both are, especially since I'm also an RPCV (Bulgaria '07-09) and my husband is Bulgarian (and American now) and we recently moved from NYC to Sarasota, FL (I grew up in Tampa). Would love to email you with more specific questions if you have some time. Thank you so much!

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